If it is only up to me, I prefer to go in blind then.
Starfield will be something I play minimum for the next 12 months I guess. The game is slow and even slower because I take it extra slow and just “be” in it and I steel everything from everyone, because I can. I think it took me 3 years to meet the final boss in Skyrim and to create a mountain of stolen cheese wheels. 
Cyberpunk will probably grab me for a bit when 2.0 is out tomorrow, but that’s similar in that I prefer to take it slow and I do not see me finishing it anyway close to what the internet says is the playtime. Last time I tried the game, I was taking screenshots more than I played the game.
What I wanted to say: We can start whenever it fits you both, waiting for me to finish these two games makes no sense and I will not touch BG3 until then, but I did make a Larian acount and started it on GFN once just to make sure it will run on “omg these graphics” and not stutter.
Also life is good and I am really happy right now. Looking forward to meet you both ingame!